Since you'll feel totally like his sex toy, you can add to the arousal of being restrained by begging him to "release" you and let you orgasm.
"Playing up that he's in control and responsible for getting you off is a huge turn-on," says Cynthia W. He can use his power to either allow you to climax or withhold stimulation for a tortuous minute.
Do it seated in front of a mirror with him behind you so that he has a great view of the action as well as a nice shot of your ass.
Start by touching your nipples with one hand and rubbing a thigh with your free one.
Squeeze your PC muscles for a count of five as you massage your clitoris, then stop moving.
Stay naked until he shows up, and let him see the flush that naturally spreads over your body as you near orgasm. He'll put together an irresistible mental image of you self-pleasuring that will build his desire so that when you have sex, it'll be an incredible release for you both.
Try this grip to really wow him: Put one hand at the base of his shaft and the other right on top of it.
Then firmly grip him as you move your hands in opposite directions, twisting at the same time.
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"Once a couple start having sex, hand jobs often stop," says sex educator Sadie Allison, author of Manhandling him will show your dirty desire to take charge.
Naughty move: Surprise him with a hand job when he least expects it.
Try a Bit of Bondage Getting tied up instantly boosts the sexual energy because it brings in the element of vulnerability.
"When you're bound, you're completely at the mercy of your partner's urges, which is exciting.