They’ll actually say ‘white men only’ or ‘no black men please,’ from time to time which is enough to turn your stomach.But I guess you can say at least they’re upfront about their preferences.” “It might seem so in the beginning, but eventually you come to realize that most of those troubles you were blaming on cultural differences were really just a result of your having not done due diligence (and who hasn’t been victimized by their libido’s tendency to takeover when a pretty face and lovely assets are involved, or rushed into something questionable to escape loneliness?Also, if you check certain English language magazines like Metropolis, or certain websites, you’ll find personal ads from Japanese women who are in the market for NJ guys.Although I’ve found a strong preference for white guys in these ads.I suspect, though I might be wrong about this, that it is pretty difficult for a NJ woman to conform to Japanese men’s / Japanese society’s expectations, and it is the rare case that a man will disregard these demands.The decision to step outside of the expectations of one’s society has ramifications that are far-reaching, and can potentially impact every facet of their lives, be it family, career, even friendships.I think it helps that we both understand each others’ priorities and our goals and plans all fit together.” “I don’t know how hard it is for Western women to meet Japanese guys. The stereotype is that Westerners are strong and Japanese men don’t want that.
One good option is joining a community club or activity, though then there’s no telling if they’ll fit your age range.
Chauvinism and misogyny are male attributes that are present all over the world, and Japan is no exception.
The society dictates what is acceptable, tolerable, attractive and even what will bring a man the prestige among his peers he might desire, and in most cases the women they choose either fulfill these needs or are expected to conform to them somehow.
After seeing my profile, several women came to meet me.
It definitely made things easier knowing they were interested in me, yet there were distractions as well.